I had a much longer version of this post but I'm sparing y'all. It had the same title, and it mentioned that it's hot but still cool in here (first hot day) and that the dog'd been squeaking her BB8, and then it went on about some Judith Butler that included tarrying with grief (as a good thing) and a picture of a page from the book of hers I returned to Interlibrary Loan today, and I got all wordy again (tho not nowhere s'wordy as Judith) (whose stuff btw I only got into now cuzza her being mentioned by Sasha Velour, the drag queen I'm rooting for on Ru Paul's Drag Race) and anyway the good part is this, which stuck out in the middle of a page, and not just for being short sentences with small words:
"Let's face it. We're undone by each other. And if we're not, we're missing something."