If you participate, please assign a different value to each one. That is, rank them from 1 to 6 as a group. (I don't think the lj poll has a way to set up a cluster of answers that force you not to give the same answer for more than one.)
S/he must support me in my career and accept that it takes up much of my time/energy.
S/he must be a free spirit.
S/he must share my cultural, philosophical or religious values.
S/he must be reasonable, reliable and have good common sense.
S/he must be my equal intellectually.
S/he must be compassionate and share my love of family and friends.
Apart from one trait, I confess I ranked 'em in pretty much the same order the H-bomb had the traits. I still debate where some of the ones in the middle rightly fall in my world, but I've got the general gist of it.